The seeds of Realchange started in the late 1980’s when I decided that I needed a break from the hassles of the business world and my current marriage, and took three years off of “everything” to pursue an understanding of what might make my life worth living!  In the ensuing 20 some years I’ve learned a lot about what goes into a life of meaning and purpose.  As a successful life coach, author, media guest, mentor and cancer survivor, I’ve experienced a life beyond what I ever expected.  The joys that have come from supporting others with their families, intimate relationships and business dealings have truly made my life worth living.

What I have discovered is this simple concept:  My quality of life—and yours also—is being determined by how we feel in the moment we’re in.  I always thought that it was what was in my life that made me feel the way I felt.  So I tried, and quite successfully I might add, to put as many things in my life as I could to be happy!  Lots of wine, women and song!  A crazy life that created an adventure that had its fair share of chaos attached to it. Fortunately, my life got so uncomfortable that I had to do something about it—probably not a whole lot different than you.  That’s what got this whole thing started.  

 

  

From over 20 years of trying to “figure it out” I’ve discovered a simple way to live that creates a peaceful and wonderful adventure.  It’s nice to have a personal philosophy that is easy to apply in all areas of life. I teach this approach using a very simple three step method:

1.     Through visual imagery we start by seeing we have; anger, fear or peace running through our emotions at any given time. 

2.   The next step is to see what the job is.  Anger and fear create a totally different world for you than peace does.  Seeing that you want more of one and less of the others sets the mark you’re shooting for.

3.   Using how to “catch” yourself when you are under the emotions of anger and fear is the final step.  Once you see anger and fear for what they are, you no longer will listen to them.  The mere conscious action that you notice them, will make you stop “doing” life your old way and give you a fresh new perspective from which to operate.

I’ve also learned that personal coaching is really serious business.   People hire me asking this question: If you were in my situation, what would you do and why would you do it?  The reason I’m still in business is because my answers to their questions has worked time and time again as they gain valuable insights into who they are, how they operate and what they can do to make a difference!  

The only requirement I’ve noticed people need to have in order to be successful in changing the quality of their lives is giving consistently of their time and effort into producing the change.  Without constant effort change will never happen.  I feel the most important part of being an effective coach is to give you the exercises and experiments to do, and then making sure you do them!  Without persistent practice change is nothing more than a dream that will never come true! 

Realchange is a unique program that “works” for those who resonate with its methods.  Please contact me through this website if you would like to explore the possibilities it might have for you or the people you care about.

Best,

Coach Bob Glotzhober